The Holistic Way: Demanding Your Presence and Kindness in Sickness & Health

by in Holistic Medicine April 7, 2016

I am always so grateful to work in a medicine that effects positive change in people’s lives. Symptoms – physical signs of distress, often dissipate with treatment as underlying imbalances are addressed.

Working as an acupuncturist in Narberth, and on the Main Line of Philadelphia, I realize that this type of care is not the standard for most. The system of Chinese Medicine and a holistic approach is truly foreign to our culture and time, It certainly was to me when I first started receiving treatments while living in Oregon, and struggling with Lyme Disease, over 10 years ago!
There is a huge difference, however, in allopathic care and holistic care and their approaches.

Patients will often come in for treatments and stop when a pressing symptom is resolved. However, the goal of treatment isn’t only to deal with the expression of an illness, but also to keep the body healthy and well and maintain that balance once its established. With any holistic approach, the goal is to allow the body to restore itself – and to maintain that ability.

It’s important to realize that by the time a symptom is expressed, the imbalance or underlying cause is most likely a pattern in your life. For example, neck pain chronic stress, overwork and perhaps an inflammatory diet. Once the pain is gone, the body is no longer screaming out for attention, but that doesn’t mean that attention and care is no longer needed.
​Re-establishing balance can take several seasons of care, which doesn’t mean intensive, weekly treatments, but perhaps every third week or monthly once balance is established. Self-care isn’t only a luxury, it’s a part of being present to your needs.

I know that when I go in for treatment, I’m always reminded in some way how to better care for myself. To sleep more, or earlier, to allow room for emotions to surface and be processed, to schedule time for creative work, the list goes on. We all need reminders throughout the day to stay present, conscious, and to kindly attend to ourselves. My relationship with my practitioner, whether it’s acupuncture, massage therapy, cranio-sacral, or cupping therapy, is like a benevolent mirror.

I named my practice The Present Sage Acupuncture because my goal has always been to remind each person of their own inner wisdom, and to be present to their own healing capacities. Words can serve as reminders, and acupuncture points have the capacity to anchor and support healthy changes. To our shared presence and kindness towards our selves both in sickness and health!

MaryFatimah Weening, L.Ac., Dipl.Ac.
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About MaryFatimah Weening, L.Ac., Dipl.Ac.
MaryFatimah has practiced acupuncture for over 10 years, and is licensed by the Pennsylvania State Board of Medicine, and nationally board-certified by the NCCAOM. She holds a B.A. from Smith College, and a Master of Acupuncture and Oriental Medicine from Maryland University of Integrative Health.